A loss

Last week, one of my cousins informed me that my great Aunt Bernice was being taken care of by Hospice. I admit she has not been well for some time, so really it was not a surprise. However, it was difficult.

When I first received my driver's license, I would just drive. I'd drive all over the place. I'd load up a small cooler with Mt. Dew and take off, destination unknown. Most of the time I'd wind up an hour from home at Aunt Bernie's house. I'd sit with Uncle Buck chatting away the hours. Or go inside to chat with Aunt Bernie. And always, if "the kids" were there, I'd have to play something, or carry someone on my back. Which is too funny now because they are much taller than I am. lol

Anyway. I have many special memories of this wonderful, sassy, lady. John does too. His first was the day we came back from our honeymoon. My Uncle Buck passed away while we were gone and his visitation was the day we returned. It was our first function as a married couple. And John's first glimpse into Aunt Bernice, who upon seeing me scolded me for not coming by with John while Uncle Buck was alive. I'm not sure, but I don't think John was too keen on her that night. I don't think his family is big on saying what they think when they think it. But here he was face-to-face with a woman who strongly believed it and lived it...until the day she died. His opinion of her changed his second meeting with her. She was also loving and embracing. He was loved and hugged. :)

I received a message on FB this morning that she had passed. To say I'm heartbroken is merely words. She was joy and laughter. She was hard as nails. She was so loved! I will miss her. Truly.

Back Row: Kyle, Doug, Skyla, Tori Front Row: Aunt Bernice